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“NO IMPATIENT ONE CAN EVER SUCCEED”
SUCCESS does not mean an absence of problems, it is overcoming problems, success is not measured by how high we go up with life, but how many times we bounce back when we fall down.
Have you ever wondered why only some people are more successful than many of us?
It’s simple, they think effectively before acting. They have mastered the slogan of success. Successful people accept the challenge of responsibility and hard work, they hold themselves accountable for their actions and decisions.
In all our actions, errors and mistakes are our only teachers. Who commits mistakes, the path of truth is attainable by him only. Tress never makes mistakes not do stones fall into error, animals hardly seen to trans-green the fixed laws of nature, but man is prone to error and it is man who becomes god-on-earth. This is how it matters, you might have heard of the power of positive thinking, have you ever heard about the power of negative thinking?
Positive thinking empowers you with the magic to succeed where as the negative thinking leads you to the finish line of failure.
This is the time to begin; the ground is here to succeed in your life, where the,
“Ability teaches us how we do, motivation determines why we do,
And attitude decides how well we do.”
The greatest thing ever discovered is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind. During childhood, we form attitudes that last a lifetime. A positive attitude acquired during the formative years makes life meaning full and rewarding in every manner. If your early childhood experiences have produced a positive attitude, you are indeed fortunate and have a head start over others. But, if you have acquired a negative attitude, whether by design or by default you are not stuck with it, you can change your attitude.
Caution: if you have a positive attitude also there is no guarantee that you will always remain positive? Obviously the answer will be ‘No’ unless you make effort to maintain it.
Become aware of the slogans to build a positive attitude. Have a desire to be positive. Cultivate the discipline and dedication to practice those principles.
So as Norman Vincent peale said
“Any fact facing us is not as important as our attitude
towards it, for that determines our success or failure.”
If you need to become seeker of good you need focus on the positive part of your life here is a story which explains you about looking for what is right rather than wrong.
“Andrew Carnegie came to America from Scotland as a young boy. He started out by doing odd jobs and ended up as one of the largest steel manufacturers in the United States. At the time, he has 43 millionaires working for him. A million dollar is lot of money today, but in the 1920’s it was worth much more .someone once asked Mr. Carnegie how he dealt with people. Andrew Carnegie replied.
“Dealing with people is a lot like digging for gold: when you go digging for an ounce of gold you have to move tons of dirt before you get an ounce of gold, but when you go digging, you don’t go looking for the dirt, you go looking for the gold”
Andrew Carnegie’s reply has a very important message. Though sometimes it may not be apparent there is something positive in every person and every situation. We have to dig deep to look for the positive. Andrew Carnegie’s message is very clear : Become a gold digger. Change focus. Look for the positive.
So what is your focus? Search for the gold. If you are looking for what is wrong with people or with things, you will end of finding only faults. What are we looking for Gold or dirt? I do believe it will be gold. That is where the path of positive attitude lies towards the success.
Some people always look at negative side where he makes himself a pessimist, who is moaners, groaners and permanent complainers who don’t see doughnut, they only see holes.
Looking for positive does not necessarily mean overlooking faults. Being a positive thinker does not mean one has to agree or accept everything. It only means that a person is solution focused.
So Be an OPTIMIST .It is as simple as that “Be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. Talk health, happiness and prosperity to every person you meet . Make all your friends feel that you appreciate their good qualities and strengths .look at the sunny side of everything. Think only of the best, work only for the best and expect only the best. Be as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own. Forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future. Give everyone a smile. Spend so much time improving yourself that you have no time to criticise others. Be too big for worry and too noble for anger”
Make a habit of doing it now,
“A completed task is fulfilling and energising;
An incomplete task drains energy.”
If you want to build and maintain a positive attitude, get into a habit of living in the present and doing it now. “This is like a little boy who says that when he becomes a big boy, he will do this and that and will be happy. And when he becomes a big boy he says that when he finishes his college he will be happy. And when he finishes college he says when he gets his first job he will be happy. And when gets his first job he says when he gets married, and then he will be happy. And when he gets married he says when the kids get out the school he will be happy. And when kids get out of school, he says that when he retires, he will be happy. And when he retires what does he see? He sees, life has just gone by, in front of his eyes. It is too late.
Some people practice procrastination by cooking up high sounding words saying “I’m analysing” a month later and six months later they are still analysing .what they never realise is that they are suffering from a disease called: paralysis by analysis and they will never succeed. Then there is another breed of people who procrastinate by saying” I’m getting ready.” A month later they are still getting ready and six months later and they are not yet ready. They’re actually getting ready to get ready, and they never get ready. They state they will do it when they become an expert. They don’t understand that unless you do it, you’ll never become an expert. They keep making excuses.
You cannot walk without standing on your legs. So live the present because life is not a dress rehearsal. I don’t care what philosophy you believe in - we have got only one shot at this game called life.
Unlike the game of football where we can replace the players, in the game of life, we have to play our own game. And the more crazy part about life is that the “test comes before the text” and as usual experience the name what we give to our mistakes. This life is a one-way street. There is no rewind button. The more they postpone, the price tag becomes higher and higher.
So “never leave till tomorrow, which you can do today.” – BENJAMIN FRANKLIN
Have you ever heard of Gratitude, gratitude reflects humanity. It keeps a person grounded. It is a great philosophy to live by, “Never forget what others have done for you and never remember what you have done to others” Take time to smell the roses. Many of our blessings are hidden treasures- count your blessings and not your troubles.
Sometimes I even do feel that education without values is like pistol without bullets because knowledge is piling up facts , wisdom is simplifying them. People have to learn to learn because education without morals created a menace in society.
“universities are turning out highly skilled barbarians because we don’t provide a framework of values to young people , who more and more are searching for it. “
-Steven Muller, president, johns Hopkins university
It’s been a long day you been reading things so it’s time to ask you what makes a person successful? How do we recognise success? What is the manifestation of success? How do we know we have arrived?
You need to keep your mind on what you want, not on what you don’t want.
Success is not an accident. It is the result of your attitude and your attitude is a choice. Hence success is a matter of choice and not chance. To some people, success might mean wealth. To others, it may be recognition, good health, a good family, happiness, satisfaction or peace of mind. What this really tells us is that success is subjective. Success means different things to different people. The definition that I feel best summarises’ success ‘is
“Success is the progressive realisation of a worthy goal.”
-Earl Nightingale
Success and happiness go hand in hand. Success is getting what you want and happiness is wanting what you get. Success does not mean being liked and accepted by everyone. There are some groups I would not want to be accepted by, I would rather be criticised byt fools than appreciated by cheats and crooks.
I see success as a manifestation of good luck that results from Aspiration, inspiration and perspiration- generally in that sequence.
“I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody”
I believe every success story is also a story of great failure. Failure is the highway to success.
As Tom Watson Sr, of IBM said , “ If you want to succeed, double your failure rate.”
If you study history , you will realise that all stories of success are also stories of great failures. The world only sees success. They don’t see the struggle behind the success, and say “He got lucky , he must have been at the right place at right time.”
Let me share a famous life history with you. This was a man who failed in business at the age of twenty-one; was defeated at the legislative race at the age of twenty-two; failed again in business at age twenty-four; had his sweetheart die when he was age twenty-six; had a nervous breakdown at age of twenty-seven; lost a congressional race at age thirty-four; lost a senatorial race at age of forty-five; failed in an effort to become vice-president at age of forty-seven; lost a senatorial race at age of forty-nine; and was elected president of the united states at age of fifty-two. This man was ABRAHAM LINCOLN
So with these many failures, if Lincoln had quit, probably nobody would have blamed him but nobody would remember him either. Would you call Lincoln a failure? He could have quit, hung his head in shame and gone back to his law practice. But to Lincoln, defeat was a detour not a dead end. The greatest people in the world turn a setback into a comeback.
All the examples confirm that success is not the absence of failure. It is overcoming failure. Successful peoples don’t do great things; they only do small things in great way.
Like henry ford forgot to put reverse gear in his first car. Who now is running a huge car industry?
All success stories are the stories from great failure. The only difference is that every time they failed, they bounced back. This is called failing forward, rather than backward. You learn and move forward. learn from your failure and keep going. Setbacks are inevitable. As setback can act as a driving force and also teach us humanity. in grief, you will find courage and faith to overcome the set back.” Learn to become victors, not victims. Fear and doubt short –circuit the mind.
Why don’t people achieve excellence? The big reason is the lack of vision or limited vison. We need to dream beyond what is possible. Everything that we see today was a dream before it becomes reality. Live with enthusiasm, direction and a sense of purpose. Do you have a dream? What is your dream? Every day that you live, and you getting closer to your purpose? don’t listen to living failures- they will give you faulty advices on how to succeed.
Here I wind up the speech,
“ where the vision is one year , cultivate flowers. Where the vision is ten years. Cultivate trees. Where the vision is eternity , cultivate people .
Oriental saying
Winners don’t do different things, they do things differently.
“NO IMPATIENT ONE CAN EVER SUCCEED”
SUCCESS does not mean an absence of problems, it is overcoming problems, success is not measured by how high we go up with life, but how many times we bounce back when we fall down.
Have you ever wondered why only some people are more successful than many of us?
It’s simple, they think effectively before acting. They have mastered the slogan of success. Successful people accept the challenge of responsibility and hard work, they hold themselves accountable for their actions and decisions.
In all our actions, errors and mistakes are our only teachers. Who commits mistakes, the path of truth is attainable by him only. Tress never makes mistakes not do stones fall into error, animals hardly seen to trans-green the fixed laws of nature, but man is prone to error and it is man who becomes god-on-earth. This is how it matters, you might have heard of the power of positive thinking, have you ever heard about the power of negative thinking?
Positive thinking empowers you with the magic to succeed where as the negative thinking leads you to the finish line of failure.
This is the time to begin; the ground is here to succeed in your life, where the,
“Ability teaches us how we do, motivation determines why we do,
And attitude decides how well we do.”
The greatest thing ever discovered is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind. During childhood, we form attitudes that last a lifetime. A positive attitude acquired during the formative years makes life meaning full and rewarding in every manner. If your early childhood experiences have produced a positive attitude, you are indeed fortunate and have a head start over others. But, if you have acquired a negative attitude, whether by design or by default you are not stuck with it, you can change your attitude.
Caution: if you have a positive attitude also there is no guarantee that you will always remain positive? Obviously the answer will be ‘No’ unless you make effort to maintain it.
Become aware of the slogans to build a positive attitude. Have a desire to be positive. Cultivate the discipline and dedication to practice those principles.
So as Norman Vincent peale said
“Any fact facing us is not as important as our attitude
towards it, for that determines our success or failure.”
If you need to become seeker of good you need focus on the positive part of your life here is a story which explains you about looking for what is right rather than wrong.
“Andrew Carnegie came to America from Scotland as a young boy. He started out by doing odd jobs and ended up as one of the largest steel manufacturers in the United States. At the time, he has 43 millionaires working for him. A million dollar is lot of money today, but in the 1920’s it was worth much more .someone once asked Mr. Carnegie how he dealt with people. Andrew Carnegie replied.
“Dealing with people is a lot like digging for gold: when you go digging for an ounce of gold you have to move tons of dirt before you get an ounce of gold, but when you go digging, you don’t go looking for the dirt, you go looking for the gold”
Andrew Carnegie’s reply has a very important message. Though sometimes it may not be apparent there is something positive in every person and every situation. We have to dig deep to look for the positive. Andrew Carnegie’s message is very clear : Become a gold digger. Change focus. Look for the positive.
So what is your focus? Search for the gold. If you are looking for what is wrong with people or with things, you will end of finding only faults. What are we looking for Gold or dirt? I do believe it will be gold. That is where the path of positive attitude lies towards the success.
Some people always look at negative side where he makes himself a pessimist, who is moaners, groaners and permanent complainers who don’t see doughnut, they only see holes.
Looking for positive does not necessarily mean overlooking faults. Being a positive thinker does not mean one has to agree or accept everything. It only means that a person is solution focused.
So Be an OPTIMIST .It is as simple as that “Be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. Talk health, happiness and prosperity to every person you meet . Make all your friends feel that you appreciate their good qualities and strengths .look at the sunny side of everything. Think only of the best, work only for the best and expect only the best. Be as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own. Forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future. Give everyone a smile. Spend so much time improving yourself that you have no time to criticise others. Be too big for worry and too noble for anger”
Make a habit of doing it now,
“A completed task is fulfilling and energising;
An incomplete task drains energy.”
If you want to build and maintain a positive attitude, get into a habit of living in the present and doing it now. “This is like a little boy who says that when he becomes a big boy, he will do this and that and will be happy. And when he becomes a big boy he says that when he finishes his college he will be happy. And when he finishes college he says when he gets his first job he will be happy. And when gets his first job he says when he gets married, and then he will be happy. And when he gets married he says when the kids get out the school he will be happy. And when kids get out of school, he says that when he retires, he will be happy. And when he retires what does he see? He sees, life has just gone by, in front of his eyes. It is too late.
Some people practice procrastination by cooking up high sounding words saying “I’m analysing” a month later and six months later they are still analysing .what they never realise is that they are suffering from a disease called: paralysis by analysis and they will never succeed. Then there is another breed of people who procrastinate by saying” I’m getting ready.” A month later they are still getting ready and six months later and they are not yet ready. They’re actually getting ready to get ready, and they never get ready. They state they will do it when they become an expert. They don’t understand that unless you do it, you’ll never become an expert. They keep making excuses.
You cannot walk without standing on your legs. So live the present because life is not a dress rehearsal. I don’t care what philosophy you believe in - we have got only one shot at this game called life.
Unlike the game of football where we can replace the players, in the game of life, we have to play our own game. And the more crazy part about life is that the “test comes before the text” and as usual experience the name what we give to our mistakes. This life is a one-way street. There is no rewind button. The more they postpone, the price tag becomes higher and higher.
So “never leave till tomorrow, which you can do today.” – BENJAMIN FRANKLIN
Have you ever heard of Gratitude, gratitude reflects humanity. It keeps a person grounded. It is a great philosophy to live by, “Never forget what others have done for you and never remember what you have done to others” Take time to smell the roses. Many of our blessings are hidden treasures- count your blessings and not your troubles.
Sometimes I even do feel that education without values is like pistol without bullets because knowledge is piling up facts , wisdom is simplifying them. People have to learn to learn because education without morals created a menace in society.
“universities are turning out highly skilled barbarians because we don’t provide a framework of values to young people , who more and more are searching for it. “
-Steven Muller, president, johns Hopkins university
It’s been a long day you been reading things so it’s time to ask you what makes a person successful? How do we recognise success? What is the manifestation of success? How do we know we have arrived?
You need to keep your mind on what you want, not on what you don’t want.
Success is not an accident. It is the result of your attitude and your attitude is a choice. Hence success is a matter of choice and not chance. To some people, success might mean wealth. To others, it may be recognition, good health, a good family, happiness, satisfaction or peace of mind. What this really tells us is that success is subjective. Success means different things to different people. The definition that I feel best summarises’ success ‘is
“Success is the progressive realisation of a worthy goal.”
-Earl Nightingale
Success and happiness go hand in hand. Success is getting what you want and happiness is wanting what you get. Success does not mean being liked and accepted by everyone. There are some groups I would not want to be accepted by, I would rather be criticised byt fools than appreciated by cheats and crooks.
I see success as a manifestation of good luck that results from Aspiration, inspiration and perspiration- generally in that sequence.
“I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody”
I believe every success story is also a story of great failure. Failure is the highway to success.
As Tom Watson Sr, of IBM said , “ If you want to succeed, double your failure rate.”
If you study history , you will realise that all stories of success are also stories of great failures. The world only sees success. They don’t see the struggle behind the success, and say “He got lucky , he must have been at the right place at right time.”
Let me share a famous life history with you. This was a man who failed in business at the age of twenty-one; was defeated at the legislative race at the age of twenty-two; failed again in business at age twenty-four; had his sweetheart die when he was age twenty-six; had a nervous breakdown at age of twenty-seven; lost a congressional race at age thirty-four; lost a senatorial race at age of forty-five; failed in an effort to become vice-president at age of forty-seven; lost a senatorial race at age of forty-nine; and was elected president of the united states at age of fifty-two. This man was ABRAHAM LINCOLN
So with these many failures, if Lincoln had quit, probably nobody would have blamed him but nobody would remember him either. Would you call Lincoln a failure? He could have quit, hung his head in shame and gone back to his law practice. But to Lincoln, defeat was a detour not a dead end. The greatest people in the world turn a setback into a comeback.
All the examples confirm that success is not the absence of failure. It is overcoming failure. Successful peoples don’t do great things; they only do small things in great way.
Like henry ford forgot to put reverse gear in his first car. Who now is running a huge car industry?
All success stories are the stories from great failure. The only difference is that every time they failed, they bounced back. This is called failing forward, rather than backward. You learn and move forward. learn from your failure and keep going. Setbacks are inevitable. As setback can act as a driving force and also teach us humanity. in grief, you will find courage and faith to overcome the set back.” Learn to become victors, not victims. Fear and doubt short –circuit the mind.
Why don’t people achieve excellence? The big reason is the lack of vision or limited vison. We need to dream beyond what is possible. Everything that we see today was a dream before it becomes reality. Live with enthusiasm, direction and a sense of purpose. Do you have a dream? What is your dream? Every day that you live, and you getting closer to your purpose? don’t listen to living failures- they will give you faulty advices on how to succeed.
Here I wind up the speech,
“ where the vision is one year , cultivate flowers. Where the vision is ten years. Cultivate trees. Where the vision is eternity , cultivate people .
Oriental saying
Winners don’t do different things, they do things differently.
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